Fairy Dust, does it work? No. Vision Boards, do they work? Yes!
I am a true believer in the Law of Attraction. It has been an integral part of my life. When I was a small child being physically, emotionally, and sexually abused, I would lie in my bed at night and envision how I wanted life to be. I would create these real life stories with characters, and I would play them over and over in my head. I was always amazed when many of the stories would come true. Suddenly, I would be in a location that looked familiar; it was in my thoughts years before. I would meet a person, and they looked or acted just like one of the characters in my head. I would want something, and all of sudden a chain of events would happen, and it would be there in front of me.
Later in life, I learned this phenomenon was called the “Law of Attraction.” As an adult, people have called me “lucky.” Some people have called me “fortunate.” Truly, I am just BLESSED! It is real, and it is always in operation. I use it daily. And more amazingly, when I forget to use it, I see it work in reverse.
So, if you can visualize things into your life, then why not create a Vision Board? I love my Vision Board for many reasons. It is a constant reminder of things for which I am grateful, as well as a vision of where I want my life to go. When people have had all the circumstances in the world against them, I have seen a Vision Board change their lives.
I could give you hundreds of examples of seeing the Visualization working in my life and in those around me. I am not talking only about abstract thinking. I am speaking of very specific situations. Last year, I had someone close to me write themselves a check for a large amount of money and put it in their desk drawer. Six months later, they were offered an Executive Level position. Guess how much the compensation package totaled? You got it! It was for the “EXACT” amount of money that was written on the check in their drawer.
Here are some common mistakes I see with people creating their Vision Board:
- OBSESSION – I see some people make a big mistake with Vision Boards and Visualization. They become obsessed with it. They create their vision, and then get frustrated when it doesn’t come true. They talk about it over and over. They dwell on it. They become so obsessed that it interferes with living their life. To make Visualization and a Vision Board work for you and not against you, the key is to mediate on your vision for only a few minutes, and then release it into the Universe. The Universe will figure out how to make it happen. If you think about it every hour of every day, I can almost guarantee you that it will not come to pass. You ask, “Why not?” Well, it is because you are not releasing it in faith. You are stressing and fretting over it, and it blocks God from doing what is necessary to make your life happen.
- GREED – I have seen first-hand that people create Vision Boards that are all money focused. This is greed, not happiness. You see, wealth is a balance of life that includes successful relationships, a healthy life, hobbies, life goals, careers, and yes- money. I saw someone create a board once, and all it had was money items on it. This person was so focused on getting out of debt, but also in getting more material possessions all at the same time. That is a contradiction to the Universe. Their board didn’t have anything about people or their own physical or spiritual health… just money issues.
- FRUSTRATION – I see this all too often! As an example, this summer I spent a day and taught my munchkins how to create a Vision Board. We made a day of it. I took them to an office supply store, and they could pick out anything to make their boards. They bought cork boards, picked out fun push pins that matched their rooms, chose boxes of colored pencils, and bought 2 magazines. We had a blast! Well, my 12 year old daughter absolutely loves Cody Simpson’s songs. That was the first thing that went on her board. She really wanted to go to a concert and meet him. For the next several days, she only mentioned Cody Simpson. She kept asking when it would come true. I explained to her that she had become obsessed with it to the point that it won’t come true. She has to release it and believe that one day she will meet him. You have to be patience and just “Believe.”
One of my favorite stories is by John Asarff in the book, “The Secret”:
In 1995 I started to create something called a Vision Board, where I take something that I want to achieve, or something that I want to attract, like a car or a watch or the soul mate of my dreams, and I put a picture of what I want up on this board. Every day I would sit in my office and I would look up at this board and I would start to visualize. I would really get into the state of having already acquired it.
I was getting ready to move. We put all the furniture, all the boxes, into storage, and I made three different moves over a period of five years. And then I ended up in California and bought this house, renovated it for a year, and then had all the stuff brought from my former home five years earlier. One morning my son Keenan came into my office, and one of the boxes that was sealed for five years was right at the doorstep. He asked, “What’s in the boxes, Daddy?” And I said, “Those are my Vision Boards.” He then asked, “What’s a Vision Board?” I said, “Well, it’s where I put all my goals up. I cut them out and I put all my goals up as something that I want to achieve in my life.” Of course at five and a half years old he didn’t understand, and so I said, “Sweetheart, let me just show you, that’ll be the easiest way to do it.”
I cut the box open, and on one Vision Board was a picture of a home that I was visualizing five years earlier. What was shocking was that we were living in that house. Not a house like it – I actually bought my dream home, renovated it, and didn’t even know it. I looked at that house and I started to cry, because I was just blown away. Keenan Asked, “Why are you crying?” “I finally understand how the law of attraction works. I finally understand the power of visualization. I finally understand everything that I’ve read, everything that I’ve worked with my whole life, the way I’ve built companies. It worked for my home as well, and I bought our dream home and didn’t even know it.”
Now get to changing your own life! Create a Vision Board…
EXERCISE FOR CREATING A VISION BOARD
Here are the steps to making a Vision Board work for you. Collect your materials for your Vision Board. You need:
- A Cork Board
- Push Pins
- Pictures, Words, Magazines, etc.
- Get into a room with your own thoughts and feelings. Put on your favorite piece of music.
- Start by putting the #1 most important thing that you already have in life on your board. Put it right in the middle, and say “Thank You for….” as you put it there.
- As you put more items on your board, stop for one minute, close your eyes, and visualize how you would feel when it comes true. For example, if you put a new house on your board, stop and visualize yourself walking through your house. Visualize yourself at the Title Company closing on your house. Visualize yourself moving into your house. Visualize how it will look when you have finished moving into it.
- After you get all of the items on your Board, put it where you can see it daily.
- Every morning, pause for a moment and look over your board. Pick a few things and mediate briefly on them, and then release them! Go about your daily routine.
Create a vision with passion!
Laurie Calzada
Author and Motivational Speaker